Do you find yourself making decisions without fully comprehending their impact on your future and would like to feel more in charge of it? Do you wish that you had a roadmap to follow that would lead you out of this maze of emotions, decisions, and drama? Are you feeling overwhelmed by everything that you are handling and are ready for a partner who will keep you focused on your priorities? It was such a great story at the beginning. You fell in love, planned your lives together, and you and your spouse excitedly embraced all the good fortune that came your way as the result of being a team.
Then something happened and it all came crashing down around you.
You didn’t plan for this. You weren’t prepared for it. You’re hurt, confused and really scared.
Marriages end all the time but now it’s happening to you, and you are feeling sad and very alone.
Have you found yourself wondering:
- I don’t know what to expect during this process
- I must make decisions that safeguard my future but I don’t really trust my judgment
- Is what I am feeling normal during divorce?
- I need to avoid making terrible mistakes but I don’t even know what those are.
The unraveling of a marriage is no small thing. It takes a mental, emotional, psychological, and financial toll on you, and those around you, and is one of the most challenging life situations to navigate (second only to the death of a loved one).
To further complicate matters, you may be one of the many women who are at risk for having little to show for your contribution to the marriage when all is said and done.
- You have been in a long-term marriage in which you played the supportive role by focusing more on your family than your career.
- There is a disparity between your income and that of your spouse
- You lack a complete understanding of your finances – what assets and liabilities you have, or how much income your husband makes.
- You are involved in a litigious, contentious, a drawn-out legal process or there is a potential for this to head in that direction.
- You are married to a narcissist, a very controlling person, or someone who lacks empathy
- You don’t know what you need to do to safeguard your interests
- Your children are being used against you in the divorce
If you recognized yourself in any of those scenarios, going through this divorce is not something you want to do on your own and without guidance. How do I know this? Because I’ve been through a very difficult divorce myself. Click here to know my story.
So what does my journey have to do with you?
My education, my work, and my life experience have shown me that when it comes to uncoupling, things often take a turn for the worse.
Make no mistake – this divorce will most likely turn into a business transaction, and you and your feelings, or your interests, aren’t going to be the primary concern.
I know you can’t imagine things will go this way and let’s say, for argument’s sake, it doesn’t.
You still want to do whatever you can, to protect everything you helped build so you can walk away with what you are entitled to.
Why is that so important? Because you have a whole new life that is waiting for you and wonderful opportunities are just around the corner.
BUT – you have to be ready for them, so you can:
- Begin your next chapter in life with confidence, knowing you have the financial means to do so
- Start seeing possibilities of how this can be a new beginning for you with systems and processes in place to ensure your security and peace of mind
- Create the life you choose with new skills and strategies to ensure you’re living the life you want and not one someone else created for you
- Wake up every day feeling strong, capable, and enthusiastic about a second chance or a new beginning!
- Achieve what is important to you because you are no longer settling
Sujata is interviewed by attorney Tammy Saltzman. Watch the interview by clicking here
Working with someone who has the knowledge, expertise, and personal experience in this area is so important. As your coach and mentor I will help you see the big picture in your divorce, prioritize your needs, create a strategy to transition you through the process and provide step by step guidance so that you save money, protect yourself and your children from unnecessary pain, and safeguard your financial future. As long as you do your part in this, you will have someone who will walk with you every step of the way. You will be alone in the maze of emotions and decisions.
I partner with you so that you are positioned to get what you need so you will have what you want.
Are you ready to take the next step to secure your future well-being and happiness?”
When we work together, you can expect to:
- Clearly identify your needs, wants, and must dos.
- You will identify where you are and where you need to go based on what you envision for your future and where your greatest challenges lie.
- Sort out the various parts of your process.
Once all the pieces are on the table, we prioritize them together. I help you assess which pieces are most important, which are most urgent, and which are both urgent and important. You will know what information is needed to achieve the results you want.
Create a strategy to achieve what you have decided you want.
You set goals with actions plans that support that strategy. This is key because just knowing what you want isn’t going to get you there.
Remain focused.
One of the greatest challenges of divorce is that there are multiple priorities at all times. The work we do together is designed to ensure that nothing of importance to you falls through the cracks.
Ensure that you find the professionals that are right for you.
There are some professionals that are necessary and there are others that you might benefit from. I help you figure out which ones you would like to work with so you only spend time and money on who you really need.
Get coached on how to get the best out of the professionals you are working with.
You might be working with several different professionals, each an expert in their field. I guide you so that you can keep their efforts coordinated and targeted towards your best interest.
Have a mentor so that you can find your strength.
Divorce makes you very vulnerable, it shakes your confidence, and it makes you second-guess yourself. The more clearly you can think, the better informed you are, the more empowered you will feel.
Have an advocate to help you stand your own ground during your divorce.
During your divorce you might be bombarded with advice from well-meaning friends and relatives. Since divorce affects most of your life, it is imperative that you stay in control of all decision-making.
Take ownership of your life. Schedule a complimentary consultation with me now to find out what you can do to help yourself.